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Is Mediation Right for my Divorce or Custody Case?

 

 

As the best divorce mediation lawyers in Arizona we often get asked, “is mediation right for my divorce or custody case?” Here at the Law Offices of Kevin Jensen one of the services that we offer is mediation. My name is Brandon Yost. I’m one of the attorneys here and this is a subject that I feel like people could really help themselves by thinking about before they file for divorce. Let me give you an example. A while back I had a client who came to me and they were already in the thick of litigation. Mother and father had been married for a few years, had some children and they needed to deal with the regular Family Court divorce issues; legal decision making for their children, parenting schedule, child support, dividing property, dividing debt and alimony, and when it first started they were generally on the same page. But wife files and then husband files on his own. Both of them did it on their own, but they were so incensed by the positions of the other person took that they started getting farther and farther away from where they had started.

By the time I got in the case we were already headed for trial and there was really no other way to go. We did a good job in that case and I’ll tell you sometimes you cannot avoid a trial because sometimes people just can’t reach an agreement and that’s OK, that’s why we have judges, that’s why we have attorneys, and that’s why we have family law. But it’s not always necessary and there are some downsides to going to trial especially in a case where you could avoid it. You’ve got a judge, she’s probably going to listen to your case for about 2 to 3 hours and then in that small period of time he or she has to listen to you and your spouse and hear all the issues about your children, your property, your finances, and then make a decision. We have great judges here in Maricopa County and throughout Arizona but that’s a lot to ask anybody to get it exactly right in a small three hour window and as often times happens, in that case we had some issues that we absolutely won on and some issues that we felt like the judge didn’t get it exactly right. I’ve never had a case that goes to trial where every single issue goes exactly our way and that’s because judges are not infallible and a three hour window is a very short window in time to present your entire life and the life of your children to the judge so the judge can make the best decision. Well in that case, while my client was still happy with the results, I feel like had I been involved earlier there may have been some other options.

Let me juxtapose that with a different situation in which mother and father both wanted to get a divorce but they talked about it and they came and saw me together and they said, “hey Brandon, here’s what we want to do. Is it something you can help us mediate?” At the Law Offices of Kevin Jensen this is one of the services we offer and we like to do a sit down with both of the parties (and in that situation I wouldn’t be representing either husband or wife, either father or mother, I’ll be sitting down as a neutral party and helping them resolve their concerns) and when I sit down with a couple in that situation, I’ll utilize my experience and knowing typically what a judge may do and knowing the law and how it would apply to their case and helping them come to the middle. I don’t advise them and I don’t represent them in that situation, but often times it ends up where they can feel good about. There’s a compromise on husband’s part and a compromise on wife’s part and they can walk away feeling like they have resolved their case and then we can make it all legal. We can send the documents to the court, the judge will sign them and the divorce will happen. It will be less expensive, it will be quicker, and generally speaking, the mother and father are able to get along with each other after the divorce much better which is important if they’ve got minor children and they’re still going to be tied together to some extent throughout the rest of their lives because of their minor children.

So please if you’re considering divorce, think about some different options. Mediation is not for everybody, and I would never assume that two persons can always come together and reach an agreement, but it’s certainly something you should consider. Please give us a call, we’d be happy to sit down with you and talk about your options. Thank you.

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Mesa, AZ – Office

Located in Mesa Arizona, on Val Vista and Southern Avenue. Our Family Law Attorneys and Divorce Lawyers in Mesa AZ have been helping our clients achieve the legal results they are searching for. Our Mesa Law Firm offers Divorce Mediation, Uncontested Divorce, Contested Divorce, Legal Separation, Female Divorce Lawyers, Annulment, Child Support Issues, Child Custody, Military Divorce, Parenting Plans, Prenuptial Agreements, Postnuptial Agreements, Grandparents Rights, Paternity, Order of Protection, Name Change and all Family Law legal issues.

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3740 E. Southern Ave Suite 210
Mesa, AZ 85206
(480) 999-2321
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Located On Dobson Road, just North of W. Chandler Blvd, near the 101 Freeway. We have a team of the Best Divorce Lawyers and Family Law Attorneys in Chandler Arizona. Our Chandler Law Firm offers Divorce Mediation, Uncontested Divorce, Contested Divorce, Legal Separation, Female Divorce Lawyers, Annulment, Child Support Issues, Child Custody, Military Divorce, Parenting Plans, Prenuptial Agreements, Postnuptial Agreements, Grandparents Rights, Paternity, Order of Protection, Name Change and all Family Law legal issues.

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333 N. Dobson Rd #5
Chandler, AZ 85224
(480) 632-2083
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Located in South East Gilbert, Near Higley High School on Pecos Road, West of Power Road in the Power Ranch Neighborhood. Our Gilbert Law Firm offers Divorce Mediation, Uncontested Divorce, Contested Divorce, Legal Separation, Female Divorce Lawyers, Annulment, Child Support Issues, Child Custody, Military Divorce, Parenting Plans, Prenuptial Agreements, Postnuptial Agreements, Grandparents Rights, Paternity, Order of Protection, Name Change and all Family Law legal issues.

Jensen Family Law in Gilbert AZ
4365 E. Pecos Rd Suite 138
Gilbert, AZ 85295
(480) 900-2302
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Florence, AZ – Office

Located in the Community of Anthem in Florence Arizona, off of Hunt Hwy. Our Florence Law Firm is staffed with family law attorneys that offer Divorce Mediation, Uncontested Divorce, Contested Divorce, Legal Separation, Female Divorce Lawyers, Annulment, Child Support Issues, Child Custody, Military Divorce, Parenting Plans, Prenuptial Agreements, Postnuptial Agreements, Grandparents Rights, Paternity, Order of Protection, Name Change and all Family Law legal issues.

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3281 N. Hunt Hwy Suite 111
Florence, AZ 85132
(480) 632-1120
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Located in Glendale. Our Glendale Law Firm offers Divorce Mediation, Uncontested Divorce, Contested Divorce, Legal Separation, Female Divorce Lawyers, Annulment, Child Support Issues, Child Custody, Military Divorce, Parenting Plans, Prenuptial Agreements, Postnuptial Agreements, Grandparents Rights, Paternity, Order of Protection, Name Change and all Family Law legal issues.

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7075 West Bell Road Suite 5
Glendale, AZ 85308
(602) 834-8585
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Jensen Family Law in Mesa is located on 3740 E Southern Ave Suite 210, 85206 Mesa, Arizona. From Phoenix Sky Harbor International Airport (PHX), Take S 41st St to E Sky Harbor Blvd, then head west on E Sky Harbor Blvd and Use the left lane to take the exit toward S 41st St. Then Turn right onto S 41st St. After that, Continue straight to stay on S 41st St, then Take AZ-202 Loop E, AZ-101 Loop S and US-60 E to S Val Vista Dr in Mesa. Take exit 184 from US-60 E after that Merge onto E Sky Harbor Blvd, then Use the left 2 lanes to merge onto AZ-202 Loop E toward Tempe/Mesa and Use the right 3 lanes to take exit 9 to merge onto AZ-101 Loop S. After that, Use the right 2 lanes to take exit 55A-B to merge onto US-60 E toward Globe, then Take exit 184 for Val Vista Dr. Then Continue on S Val Vista Dr to your destination and Turn left onto S Val Vista Dr. Turn right onto E Southern Ave, then turn left and Destination will be on the right.

We’re open 9 AM – 5 PM Monday – Friday and we are closed on Saturday and Sunday.

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